Manipulation of Listening Skills.
Today, I want to delve into many areas people had and are still failing. This popular adage says, "silence is the best answer for a fool." Hmm... Maybe it correct and I guess if we are to conduct a vote now, this adage will emerge as the candidate, isnt it? To open the floor, I want to talk about some areas we need to know but before that, what is silent? I want somebody to answer that for me. Oh, I have forgotten we ain't in lecture hall. Pardon me for that. Here now, I need to ask and answer my question all by myself. Its unfair ooooo.
To answer my question, silent in my own version of dictionary... I don't like stealing someone's meaning... Means when you are patient to hear what other(s) has/have to say, period! What other meaning(s) will build upon this one. You say I am silent when am patient with you to allow you discuss your own point of view on a particular subject matter, then, I too, in exchange terms.
I hope I haven't bride you with my definition or are you the one bribing me? Bribery is not allowed please ooo... Back to the topic, Manipulation of Listening Skills I.e how do you relate listening skills to our normal way of life? Very simple but technically difficult. Just follow me as I run you through some basic steps.
Before that, let me give you some facts about listening.
* You can't talk and listen at the same time.
* The word listen and silent have the same letters in common.
* When you talk and refused to hear what others have to say, you are only digging a deep grave for your words.
* Your listening skills determine how wise and influential you can be.
* Listening, is a gift so special on its own.
* All the great men and women erry lived are good listeners.
To mention but few, you now see explicitly that listening is very essential and paramount.
Back to the steps. How can I be a good listener? Very simple...
1. Make up your mind to listen to others.
2. Try as much as possible to let others say their own view first.
3. Don't be too quick to judge others.
4. Let to be patient with everyone... Information is life.
5. Trust yourself and believe others only when you are sure they are not faking what they have just said.
6. Be a hood listener.
To answer my question, silent in my own version of dictionary... I don't like stealing someone's meaning... Means when you are patient to hear what other(s) has/have to say, period! What other meaning(s) will build upon this one. You say I am silent when am patient with you to allow you discuss your own point of view on a particular subject matter, then, I too, in exchange terms.
I hope I haven't bride you with my definition or are you the one bribing me? Bribery is not allowed please ooo... Back to the topic, Manipulation of Listening Skills I.e how do you relate listening skills to our normal way of life? Very simple but technically difficult. Just follow me as I run you through some basic steps.
Before that, let me give you some facts about listening.
* You can't talk and listen at the same time.
* The word listen and silent have the same letters in common.
* When you talk and refused to hear what others have to say, you are only digging a deep grave for your words.
* Your listening skills determine how wise and influential you can be.
* Listening, is a gift so special on its own.
* All the great men and women erry lived are good listeners.
To mention but few, you now see explicitly that listening is very essential and paramount.
Back to the steps. How can I be a good listener? Very simple...
1. Make up your mind to listen to others.
2. Try as much as possible to let others say their own view first.
3. Don't be too quick to judge others.
4. Let to be patient with everyone... Information is life.
5. Trust yourself and believe others only when you are sure they are not faking what they have just said.
6. Be a hood listener.
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