MARRIAGE CONCEALED REVEALED
Today, I'm privileged to talk to you on marriage. By the way, almost every day knows the meaning of what marriage means, Am I right? Of course yes.
But there is a "but" to that. We only define marriage in our words, we don't define it in our actions. Why?
Marriage can be easily and quickly defined by everybody, even those who are not into it. But on the verb part, we sternly neglect. We believe marriage is coming togething of a man an woman( not a boy and girl, man to man, woman to woman, man to women, men to woman or man or woman to animal)these are tge ideas to terminate the right institution of marriage.
A matured minded man and woman, understanding themselves and coming together as one. Marriage means leaving to cleaving. You must leave your bachelorhood and spinsterhood to be cleaved to your husband or wife. That master must change to Mr. and that Miss. must be changed to Mrs.
There is also a cordial union between the two once single individuals to be coupled together as husband and wife. You need to throw away your former title and position to take on the new one.
If you have been sleeping on a student mattress before now, as husband, you need to buy a bigger bed that can take two of you now. As wife, if you have been living with your friends, you must note that now, it'll only be you and your husband.
Don't be scared when you saw someone by your side on the night of your wedding. My dear friend, that's your heartthrob. Don't think he/she is evil spirit and you started praying against the evil spirit.
Do you know the funny things about some people opinions for marrying? It will interest you to know that some people marry for the wrong reason, therefore, just jump out of it. If you are marrying him or her because he/she is handsome/gorgeous, my friend, you are being fooled. When you see her real face after the duve had cleaned her makeups, you will rub for your dear life.
Some also marry because she can cook, well, restaurants can help attend to that need.
Some marry because of money... Ha, she is rich... He's stinkingly wealthy... My friend, when the money dissappers, you will be the only one sustaining the hunger.
Many many because of sexual gratifications or fulfilments. If you marry because you want to reach your orgasm. Ha, you are on your own... By the time you marry a misogynist or someone who doesn't even like sex, you aim is been defeated.
Some marry base on helping the person. Are you his/her helper? If you think you can help him or her to alleviate suffering, you are just doing yourself a great havoc.
I think I should stop here for today on wrong impressions of marriage. Now, let me go to another very important aspect of marriage. There are some people you shouldn't attempt to marry at all for any reason. I won't explain why but if you want to suffer marriageclampdowns, marry them.
1. Wife/husband bartery.
2. Mom's son or daughter.
3. Weeping wife or crying husband.
4. Loner.
5. Promiscuous Lady.
6.Humanising man.
7. Husband/wife snatcher.
8. Jealous husband/wife.
9. Lazy and idle man or woman.
10. Drug addict.
11. Human Abuser.
12. Travelling husband/wife.
13. Extravagant man/woman.
14. Indiscipline man/woman.
15. Cheat.
16. Visionless man/woman.
The list are endless. There is something peculiar to these people that I have listed. The will mar your union.
Nevertheless, every good marriage must adhere strictly to this injunctions.
Marriage is not going to have a break time, it is continuous.
No part-time marriage, it's full-time.
No I quit marriage, it is I cleave.
No Second Chance in marriage... It's not a movie.
If you write marriage this way; MAR-ir-AGE. The "ir" when removed means the couple are into mar age...
Their destinies will be destroyed shortly and there is nothing they can do about it.
Their visions will be blurred and there is no one that can correct it.
Their missions are going to be dilapidated, and there is no construction company that will fix it for them.
Their goals are going to be sunk in the river of regrets and no one will be there to comfort them...
But when the "ir" is there, thatmeans INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP.
That means, there is love and care.
Sugar and butter in their home.
Honey and dear in their mouths.
Joy and laughter overtaking their steps.
A marriage of gladness and fulfilments.
Smile will always fill their mouths.
This is the type of home we want. You must pray for it, plan for t, prepare for it, labour for it and wait patiently until you get into it.
God bless your marriage.
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